I cannot tell you how many times a day, maybe even an hour, I’ve asked myself this question lately. It’s become a bit like a mini mantra for me. A way to bring me home and realign with what’s important.  For years, I splintered myself into conflicting pieces every time a big (and oftentimes small) decision came up.  I would get so weighed down in the details, overanalyzing from every angle, trying to make the most informed decision possible.  Problem was, I didn’t have a north star. I didn’t know where I was headed so how could I possibly expect to lead with confidence and courage.  It wasn’t until I created the space to sit down (repeatedly) and get really clear on my vision for the future that the weight of those decisions was lifted.  When you have a north star to point towards the decision making process almost becomes automatic, like an innate sense.  Then as each little and big decision starts to align with that guiding light you learn to trust yourself. And trusting yourself is a powerful thing. It’s true religion. 🌹

I cannot tell you how many times a day, maybe even an hour, I’ve asked myself this question lately. It’s become a bit like a mini mantra for me. A way to bring me home and realign with what’s important.

For years, I splintered myself into conflicting pieces every time a big (and oftentimes small) decision came up.

I would get so weighed down in the details, overanalyzing from every angle, trying to make the most informed decision possible.

Problem was, I didn’t have a north star. I didn’t know where I was headed so how could I possibly expect to lead with confidence and courage.

It wasn’t until I created the space to sit down (repeatedly) and get really clear on my vision for the future that the weight of those decisions was lifted.

When you have a north star to point towards the decision making process almost becomes automatic, like an innate sense.

Then as each little and big decision starts to align with that guiding light you learn to trust yourself. And trusting yourself is a powerful thing. It’s true religion. 🌹

Life by Design was born out of a need for my own self-healing after decades of unresolved illness. It wasn’t until finding the courage to look within that I discovered it was my own belief system holding me back from experiencing a truly thriving life. We all have access to that thriving life. We just need to rediscover our power and ignite the healing-self. Only then can we unapologetically live a life by our own design.